[ElainMoria]

With all due respect TibetanPrincess... you missed my point entirely. That is neither here nor there as you are obviously set in your opinions and are unable or unwilling to see anyone else's point of view. That is the trait of the closed mind, not an enlightened and open mind. Your inability to see or understand that human sexuality is a spectrum, not a black/white issue is likely a cultural imprint/prejudice that you are as yet unable to overcome or possibly even recognize.

That happens to all of us now and then, we are after all, primarily products of the cultures we are born and live in, few of us transcend those barriers and move into the larger realm of the greater human equation which is to accept that we are all traveling our own roads, and have our own destinations and paths towards 'enlightenment' of our self. No one path is the 'only' path, no one view is the 'only' possible view. For you, your view works for you, however, your insistence on being disparaging/dismissive to those who don't share your view is really not acceptable.

You believe one way. Others don't. You insist they are dealing in perversity, while for them.. it isn't something that is perverse. You lose the perspective that each persons journey is their own, not yours to decide what is right/wrong/perverse. In your own arrogance, you have determined that your viewpoint is the only possible way something can be considered. That is the epitome of hubris.

So... While you will likely not be able to see why I have said what I have said with any actual clarity, though I hope at some point you will... I will end this conversation with a simple wish of goodness, health and great joy in your life.

~Elain