21-01-2014, 12:34 AM
(21-01-2014, 12:06 AM)timarie Wrote:(20-01-2014, 10:45 PM)ELLACRAIG Wrote: Tina my husbsnd thinks im a total greenie nutjob as it is! :p all because I try to have us all eat organic, take vitamens, avoid environmental toxins. He thinks its all hogwash as with his whole family. He teases the living daylights out of me as it is (in a friendly ribbing manner). I bring out a contraption like the noggleberry and tell him this thing will make my boobs bigger and il get laughed at to kingdom come!! I could honestly go up a full cup size and tell him how I did it and he would still blame it on other reasons ie weight gain etc! Thats if hed notice at all!!! :p
But I love him dearly and he has started noticing my boobs a bit more now.
Soooo in summary. If I dont want to get mocked I keep this to myself
Ah, I understand. I guess I have spent my entire youth being mocked and so, as I have matured, don't give a damn anymore! I actually am pretty proud of who I am, quirkiness and all. And I completely understand why ANYONE might laugh at the noogleberry. Honestly, I DID when I first started reading about it! I was like, "wth?! surely this is a joke..." Which is why I would understand keeping it a secret for some time but after having success with it, I would see no reason to continue! I'd be proud of it at that point. And if he is stubborn and not open-minded about it (which sounds like he is! silly boy ) even upon seeing you grow, then I personally would just poke it right back at him with my head held high. Because YOU know that you're right, and that is all that matters. Honestly, I probably wouldn't settle down with someone who didn't value my quirkiness to begin with, honestly! The point of being in a relationship is to be accepted by the other person, at least for me. It sounds like you really do love each other though, so I hope somehow it all works out! Hopefully he will eventually at least tolerate the idea of it Because secrecy is no fun unless it is meant for the purpose of surprise! Which is why I think you should surprise him. hahahaha
Thats the plan tina ! ( look what i got hubby and guess where they came from..) Yes its very hard not seeing eye to eye on matters such as natural health. Its very important to me but such is life. You take the good with the bad