[TibetanPrincess]

So this will probably get me backlash and I know this is not nearly true for all relationships, but I wonder.......do relationships have a greater success rate when the female is larger chested? I feel as stupid reading what I just wrote as much as I did while typing it, but truly, I do question this.

All of my friends who have been together 10+ years, married or long-term relationships have large busts. Does this help seal in confidence, nurturing & greater attraction/respect from the male-standpoint? Do smaller-chested females have a complex that at least somewhat puts a gray cloud over their head, stunting their happiness and feeding into insecurities which may leak over into their relationship?

I have always wondered this, but now I am noticing something within my own relationship as my chest grows. The larger I have gotten, the more my bf constantly wants to nuzzle in them, sleep in them, just be all around more cuddly and loving. Has he gained more attraction and "respect" for me? We have always had our ups and downs, but it seems the downs have almost diminished and since I've been "larger" the ups have gone up even higher.

I would like to put out there that he said from the very beginning (before he had even seen my chest) that he was an ass and thigh guy, so I don't think me growing is because he is an all-out boob guy.

Thoughts?

Oh JLove! I adore your naivety but I think God should take away your breasts and give you a brain! Lol.

All kidding aside, what I think you are picking up is that most men love and are sexually attracted to large breasted females, but will often tell their small breasted lovers that they love their small breasts the way they are because they know its not that big of a deal (in the back of their minds they know it might hurt our feelings) . The reason why most guys will tell a gal they prefer small breasts over large is because they just want to have a more of chance with you, get in your pants, etc.

No, no, no! Large breasts do not make relationships better, they make sex life better.
For both biological and confidence reasons.

Its like questioning whether or not attractive people have better relationships. I think we all know the answer to that.

While many men love and appreciate small breasts, very few prefer small over large. The reason for large breasts being more of a turn off is because many men don't like their gal getting that attention all the time, and the sag factor. But we need to remember, small and saggy is also unattractive. This based on what men have told me.

My question that has been daunting me, is would your man's happiness be ultimately destroyed if he knew that you were purposely developing them???

Its as if he is only more sexually attracted to your breasts and forgot about that girl who did not have them from before. Maybe that down side of him was from him not being completely happy. I mean it sounds shallow to think hes all of a sudden with a happier attitude towards the relationship. Maybe you caught him at a time in your relationship that was tempting him to stray. This is def something I'd wonder about. I wouldn't ignore that. Id be on a mission to find out what the hell this is all about.

I think you should tell him. Let him react and tell him to Get Over Himself! They're just boobs!