[Jenniferlove]

So, in a sense you're defining your actual worthiness in a relationship by the size of your breasts. Bigger breasts = more harmonious relationship. By your personal experience. You've noticed increased intimacy than before you had your full C cups.

Well no, as I wrote, I wonder if bigger breasts increases self-esteem which in turn creates a more harmonious relationship.

This is based on my observations of all the couples around me, old and young. Divorce rates are high, so yes, I think about this. Sure, you would think mental connection would prevail, but what about after 10 years? 20 years?

In my personal relationship right now we made an agreement to bite our tongues when things are stirring into a debate. That has helped us 110%. Our relationship was never about my boobs. He has never commented on boobs period really. I, unfortunately, enjoy attention there and wanted them larger so I grew them. Maybe I don't realize it, but perhaps I'm flaunting them more, encouraging him to give them more love. That could easily be it.

What I was getting at really is security issues with the FEMALE, and this is not for only me but small-busted females in general. I'm not just putting it all on the male, although that was a portion of my discussion as well. Are females who "don't measure up" more insecure and that insecurity trickles into their relationship, polluting it in a sense? Many girls come on here writing things like their relationship is at stake because they are so insecure about their chest size. Men come on here saying they're thinking of straying. And these are only the ones that come forward about their issues.

I knew this would be a wishy washy discussion. Perhaps it was better to not have asked it. Meh!