I have oooh so much to say about the things commented on in this thread but as I am short on time, I will make it brief.
Firstly in brief comment of the last two exchange of posts: Ladies, confidence is not confidence if you are imagining or pretending or acting it out. Confidence is actually thinking and knowing you are attractive. Period. So, one cannot really say they are insecure while saying they are confident... it's like, a paradox.
And secondly, I want to make it clear to anyone who reads this thread: IF YOU DO NOT LOVE YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE NOW, NEITHER NBE NOR BIGGER BREASTS WILL GIVE IT TO YOU. If anyone gets a sense of greater self-love from bigger breasts, it is an unhealthy form of love that will not last long. The same goes for men with their want for something more. If he is not happy with you the way you are now (despite not having the PERFECT body in his mind), then he will never be happy with you. They are superficial sources of a happiness which always need more off of which to feed. It can never be satisfied.
I feel like I have said this so many times on this forum and am sick of the opposite being taught by other members on this forum.
Instead of relishing the possible correlation between self-esteem/confidence, boob size, and relationship success/quality, why don't we talk about how people can REALLY improve their self-esteems and self-loves, WITHOUT increasing their boob size? That, my friends, is when you know you have a healthy, happy person. This site is the place where women need to learn to be strong to love themselves simply for who they are, boy or no boy, big boobs or small boobs. This is because no matter what we do to improve our physical appearance, if we don't love ourselves now, we will never love ourselves. Women should avoid striving to obtain a self-love that is dependent on a man's opinion of her.
As I wrote on someone else's thread: "NBE should not be a "do or die" thing, but more of an "I already like myself the way I am, but I like to embellish and improve sometimes if I can!" type of thing. The path to success is the path to happiness and the people who are on this NBE train with a "do or die" mentality are only setting themselves up to never be truly happy. If you do not love yourself with small breasts, you will not love yourself with large breasts either (you will just always want more and more), so happiness starts with loving yourself the way you are! This way, you will be happy no matter what happens (or doesn't happen) with your breasts."
I hope this mentality of bigger boobs = better life will stop. Because only superficial people are made happier by bigger boobs. This may be good and fine for some, but as I said, some people are deeper than that and actually want real happiness. If anyone reading this thread is looking for real happiness, you will NOT find it by growing your boobs. I hope I have driven home a point, here.
That was MUCH longer than I intended it to be.......
Firstly in brief comment of the last two exchange of posts: Ladies, confidence is not confidence if you are imagining or pretending or acting it out. Confidence is actually thinking and knowing you are attractive. Period. So, one cannot really say they are insecure while saying they are confident... it's like, a paradox.
And secondly, I want to make it clear to anyone who reads this thread: IF YOU DO NOT LOVE YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE NOW, NEITHER NBE NOR BIGGER BREASTS WILL GIVE IT TO YOU. If anyone gets a sense of greater self-love from bigger breasts, it is an unhealthy form of love that will not last long. The same goes for men with their want for something more. If he is not happy with you the way you are now (despite not having the PERFECT body in his mind), then he will never be happy with you. They are superficial sources of a happiness which always need more off of which to feed. It can never be satisfied.
I feel like I have said this so many times on this forum and am sick of the opposite being taught by other members on this forum.
Instead of relishing the possible correlation between self-esteem/confidence, boob size, and relationship success/quality, why don't we talk about how people can REALLY improve their self-esteems and self-loves, WITHOUT increasing their boob size? That, my friends, is when you know you have a healthy, happy person. This site is the place where women need to learn to be strong to love themselves simply for who they are, boy or no boy, big boobs or small boobs. This is because no matter what we do to improve our physical appearance, if we don't love ourselves now, we will never love ourselves. Women should avoid striving to obtain a self-love that is dependent on a man's opinion of her.
As I wrote on someone else's thread: "NBE should not be a "do or die" thing, but more of an "I already like myself the way I am, but I like to embellish and improve sometimes if I can!" type of thing. The path to success is the path to happiness and the people who are on this NBE train with a "do or die" mentality are only setting themselves up to never be truly happy. If you do not love yourself with small breasts, you will not love yourself with large breasts either (you will just always want more and more), so happiness starts with loving yourself the way you are! This way, you will be happy no matter what happens (or doesn't happen) with your breasts."
I hope this mentality of bigger boobs = better life will stop. Because only superficial people are made happier by bigger boobs. This may be good and fine for some, but as I said, some people are deeper than that and actually want real happiness. If anyone reading this thread is looking for real happiness, you will NOT find it by growing your boobs. I hope I have driven home a point, here.
That was MUCH longer than I intended it to be.......