[Dark_Swan]

So this will probably get me backlash and I know this is not nearly true for all relationships, but I wonder.......do relationships have a greater success rate when the female is larger chested?  I feel as stupid reading what I just wrote as much as I did while typing it, but truly, I do question this.  

All of my friends who have been together 10+ years, married or long-term relationships have large busts.  Does this help seal in confidence, nurturing & greater attraction/respect from the male-standpoint?  Do smaller-chested females have a complex that at least somewhat puts a gray cloud over their head, stunting their happiness and feeding into insecurities which may leak over into their relationship?

I have always wondered this, but now I am noticing something within my own relationship as my chest grows.  The larger I have gotten, the more my bf constantly wants to nuzzle in them, sleep in them, just be all around more cuddly and loving.  Has he gained more attraction and "respect" for me?  We have always had our ups and downs, but it seems the downs have almost diminished and since I've been "larger" the ups have gone up even higher.

I would like to put out there that he said from the very beginning (before he had even seen my chest) that he was an ass and thigh guy, so I don't think me growing is because he is an all-out boob guy.

Thoughts?

I disagree with that. I would agree that maybe bigger breasts leads to more attention or more possible flings etc(if the woman is interested in that). I am not into like casual flings and all, so I don't what that life is like if you have smaller boobs lol. 

I have met a couple of shitty guys who didn't treat me nicely. That was due to their own shitty attitudes and immaturity, basically there were terrible people. After this I eventually developed a "No one's going to treat me badly just because of these two lumps on my chest. " kind of attitude. It's a body part and no one can make feel this bad over it. 

My last relo was pretty good(it only ended cos one of us had to move to another country and we were both very upset)... 

We were friends before we became a couple. Even as friends, we could talk and talk for hours. And even long moments of silence wouldn't be awkward. We clicked from the first moment we talked. There wasn't a single moment where I thought "I am bored and I would rather not be here." There was no awkward phase even when we were a couple. We still felt like we were really close friends(and more). 

This guy was respectful, sweet and mature. He liked me the way I was and it actually showed in his behavior and attitude. I actually felt a lot more positive and confident about my body at times because of him. There is a lot more to good relationships than just physical attributes. We talked about other things, encouraged each other's dreams and passion, took interest in each other's hobbies.

Understanding, trust, honesty, kindness, love(genuine love)...things like this are much much more important than the size of our boobies. And if someone leaves over this petty reason it was never meant to work out in the first place.