19-04-2020, 09:28 AM
(13-09-2018, 03:45 AM)bosekk Wrote: After reading your post about pumps damaging nerve systems, I am looking at your more posts. In my personal experience, I have flat chest, all the guys dated me enjoyed being with me. They would consider me as a soulmate. BUT, they didn’t really take off my tops at all. And a lot of them cheated on me for curvy girls. My last bf said why not getting a boobjob. And he talked about girls with bigs boobs all the time. In the end he cheated too. He still wanted to keep me. I realize I have almost perfect personalities. All the guys love to hang with me, but they just don’t get turn on after the initial exitememt past. So yes it makes me feel insecured, based on my experience, for a reason. They cheat. I’m like smart and I always find out... Sometimes I wish if I were dumb, then I would have a hot guy who wanted to keep me. But since I always found out, it took away my hope again and again. even when a guy says he’s an ass guy, he still cheats for a busty girl.
Have you considered the fact that you are attracted to guys, or are attracting guys that have a tendency to cheat on you? I went through some patterns in relationships before meeting my now fiancé, and I had to take a long hard look at what was going on in order to change it. An insecure person cheats. It’s not you who is lacking, but the other’s own inner sense of security and maturity.