[surferjoe2007]

Diora Baird looks great. BUT the person who wants to look like Rachel Aldana- really? I don't know you obviously but it seems a little worrying that that would be your goal. To the vast majority of people, Rachel looks almost comical because her breasts are clearly way way oversized. I can't imagine that her day to day life is much fun and I have seen at least one article where she says that she gets crippling back pain from having to lug that weight around.
It's like when people diet and want to get thinner and thinner and they get a very distorted perspective of what looks healthy and what does not. Having oversized breasts is not going to kill you in the same way that starving yourself is, but I would be a bit worried about someone with a size 8/10 frame wanting to achieve something that to most others would be seen as mutilating your body. You already have breasts that most others would view as extremely large for your frame. Why do you feel that they need to be so large that people would stop in the street and stare at you?
This is not intended to be a criticism (although I guess it actually is so maybe I should say that my intention in making this comment is not a bad one) but I am just a bit curious. Not jealous by the way, really really not. It's just that someone who has Rachel Aldana as a goal clearly has a hugely different purpose to the vast majority of people on here who are just seeking a slightly more feminine shape to balance out their body and look more proportional.

I have been distancing myself from the group for this exact reason, I come back after being gone a while and read this post :-/ let me explain a few things. I have massaged with raw aloe consistently since puberty to avoid stretch marks unknowingly I think this has caused me to be larger chested than the average. Growing up I was always called names and treated different having big boobs I am very self conscious but recently after getting married I was helped by my hubby to embrace them and feel good about my curves. I also need everyone to know that my boobs were much larger! I am used to being even bigger yes bigger than I am know. They do get in the way but I'm young and somewhat fit and when wearing the right bras have never had back pain or tourture. I decided I wanted to loose weight and went from a 12 down to size 8-10! I am very proud of that, however my girls suffered, they lost size which is ok with me but mostly they lost shape fullness and perkiness. I came to te group not to just grow bigger boobs but to get back the boobs I had when I was heavier because I loved the shape and perkiness I once had. I have gained back 4 inches in size (still smaller than what I was at my heaviest weight) but most of all I have gained back fullness and perkiness, now I am confident to let my hubby see my without a bra and I love it. I don't care what size Rachel Aldana is but I do know I have big boobs like hers and hers are full and perky for the similar size boobs she has, she is a roll model because she is very busty like me and has a great body as well that I am trying to achieve by loosing weight. I have always had big boobs and always will I just miss how they looked when I was heavy, now that I'm thinner and like the rest of my body I'm trying to improve my boobs to what they used to be. I don't expect anyone to understand me, I was a C cup in gradeschool and at my largest I was still inches bigger than I am now. I don't feel like I fit in here and feel misunderstood, I have no bad feelings to anyone and have nothing but joy and happiness for everyone here! I will continue to cheer everyone on but as for me I feel like I don't fit in again... Thank you good bye for now I'm dealing with some depression with other issues in my life and don't think this is the place for me at the moment. Blessings to everyone.

This is tricky because no one should feel the need to be so large but if you are that way already there is no need to be smaller either. And it's not that important so since it is fun for you and your hubby that's great. It all boils down to self esteem. Most sizes are great and most should not feel inadequate. And at worst it is still only vanity. But if someone wants something else that is fine too as long as it doesn't cause emotional or health damage.

I don't think it was mainly the aloe. It has centuries of tradition for stretch marks and yet it didn't get a reputation for k cups too. Some women are just that way. I know everyone who is different gets made fun of especially in school so you might be sensitive to it whether someone means ill or not, but I think you will find that most are friendly even if they don't prefer your size.

I think all these dreams are fine as long as people also have a 90% satisfied mark. IMO that is anything B to L, and even that only vanity. The rest is just because you can, or kinda feel like it. That goes for everyone. Keep up the self esteem.