[bustybride]

Yes, as I said, I didn't have any bad intentions in making the comments and I don't think Rachel Aldana is a K cup either- more like an M. She has a medical condition which means that her breasts do not stop growing. I maintain that to aim to look like that may mean that you have an unhealthy perception of your body which is not necessarily going to be solved by getting even bigger breasts.

You do say that you are young and fit now. What about in 20 years time? Rachel Aldana is already in severe pain because of her chest at age 24. Because of her condition, I wonder if reduction surgery is even a viable option. Sure, she makes money out of it now but what happens when she is 40?

I do apologise for causing you any upset and that was not my intention. But you have to be able to take some level of criticism when you post on public boards.

If I joined a fitness forum and people were posting pictures of their fitness inspirations and I posted a picture of a clearly anorexic girl which was way out of the range of a healthy weight, I would expect some backlash. This is one thread out of hundreds on this forum and it is not attacking in tone. If you want to leave the forum, that is your choice but I have no personal desire to see you go and I really cannot understand why my post caused you to leave (and you had created a thread saying you were leaving before I posted anyway).

As I said, I do apologise for causing you any upset but I do stand by my opinion, as you stand by yours. Having distorted body image is a recognised condition and if you want any proof on here that it exists, look for "Doll's" posts. Doll seemed to have the perfect figure, continued to be unhappy despite growing bigger and bigger and later admitted that it was because she in fact suffered from gender dysphoria and was using NBE to block out her real feelings.

Anyway, take what you will from this but my guess is that throughout life, you will encounter people who do not have the same viewpoint as you and arguing back (as you have) is the way to do it rather than completely withdrawing from the situation.

I understand what you are saying and appreciate your honesty, I was wanting to leave before you comment and was away for a while so it wasn't you at all. I will be the first to admit I am very sensitive and most likely do not belong on a forum, where I can get my feelings hurt. I am not very social in real life either. I don't want to be unhealthy or have crippling boobs, I don't have Body dysmorphia either I am aware of what it is. I do think I am very misunderstood here though and way too sensitive, my flaw.

I would like to clear things up. Yes I know I have big boobs, I am not hear to make them gigantic.

I did have even larger boobs before I lost weight and I don't think they will ever be that big again so me increasing inches with NBE here is still smaller than they used to be when I was chubbier.

My goal is to have fuller rounder perkier beasts and in doing so my breasts have filled back out getting larger but again that is not my main goal.

I do consider myself healthy, even with large breasts I am healthy. I am not bothered by them, sure they get in the way a lot and clothes/bras is hard to find but I am not tutored or handicap by them. I hike do yoga and I can do everything that other do with smaller breasts I just have to ware 2 bras sometimes for jogging and sports and I spill salsa on them when I eat chips because it's hard to eat over my plate with them out in front of me.

I do enjoy the gains from NBE, I have been the happiest with my body now in the nude than I have ever been, my waist has staid smaller, and my boobs have rounded out and don't feel saggy which is amazing for me, and I can be happy looking in the mirror without wearing a bra from time to time.

I may have "Dream Boob" girls that have outrageous boobs but for me they are a bit more realistic because I am wearing a 34JJ and was bigger before so the girls I look up to who have amazing bodies are going to have really big boobs. I can't have a dream boob girl with DD cups because it's never going to happen unless I starve myself to death. I do not dream about bigger boobs but fuller rounder gravity defying boobs yes and that is a dream because I doubt they be perfect for me but it's nice to try :-) Because I post about a girl that I admire, doesn't mean I am going for that cup size or measurements I just think she has awesome boobs. If I end at a K cup which is close and my boobs are full and round not deflated looking then AWESOME! If I stay the same as I am right now and just maintain I am completely happy with that as well.

Again I want to stress I am not here to increase size but just be happier with how they sit on my chest without a bra. I am not boob greedy and I don't want to be bigger than everyone else. Large boobs have their own set of problems and they are not for everyone.

Future, I am hoping to be pregnant within a year and the girls in my family have always had permanently larger boobs after pregnancy, if the day comes that they are too big for me or something in my body changes to where they continue growing past what my frame allows I would not be against getting a reduction, I do have a good smart head on my shoulders and would know better than to be crippled under a pair of huge boobs. As of right now I am enjoying them and so is the hubby, I don't want to hack into them and get a surgical lift, I would rather do what I can with NBE and when gravity hits and age wins over I can worry about a breast lift or reduction then.

I am 100% sorry I reacted the way I did, some of you that text or PM me know that I am going through something personal and pretty serious to me this last month (nothing has been going my way) and I am letting depression get the best of me. Right now I am not in a good place to have a thick skin so it's no ones fault but mine for leaving. :-( I hope no one is upset with me and thinks I am crazy... Thanks for everything gals Happy growing! :-)