[WantAPair]

Hmmm, is she a friend who's just teasing you?

Because otherwise I'd say it's NOT okay. Personal space is personal space. And treating someone else like they are an object, in any way, shape, or form is unacceptable. It's not a male/female thing per se, it's a power thing, and that's what makes harassment so ugly.



Xo, Soli

A few times it was a casual friend, but other times it was just someone that came to see the band and started chatting me up by lifting my skirt or rubbing my legs. One girl was the owner of the bar we were playing in that night. She invited us to her place after the show and either she was sitting on my lap or I was sitting on hers, then she asked me if she could squeeze my tits. Cool, at least she asked! She had a HUGE set of at LEAST DDD's, made to look even bigger because of how small she is, and I said, "Sure, can I squeeze yours?" Suddenly she got REAL selfish with HER tits and refused to let me squeeze them, and didn't bother to squeeze mine. The next timer I saw her a few years ago, she looked as if she had no tits at all!! I wonder if she was wearing fakes that one night, too, and didn't want me to find out?