[Majestic]

Hello ladies.

I am new to the forum but i have been viewing it for a couple of months as it is filled with useful infomation.
I have decided to become a member as i have posted a thread before but it never got shown for some reason.

I have a concern about the male members that flood this forum and in my opinion it should be for women only, i see no reason for men to want manboob's, they cannot develop as we do and i dont see how they can share any infomation with us women regarding this.
I do not want to single out people but there is a member called Cheryll who seems to be every where on this forum and that disturbs me. How can a man with manboobs comment on women with real breasts and give advice, i also do not think his avatar picture is him more likely a friend or girlfriend.
I do not wish to sound harsh, but i think alot of women on here must think as i do and we should have our say and make it a women only forum.
i also think some of these men need help and i will not be posting my pictures on here for that reason as i do not wish to be perved on.
So come on ladies lets make this forum how it should be.
I look forward to speaking to many of you soon, as i will soon be posting my routine.

Best wish's Carol.

[Bibi]

Hello Carol
I have to disagree. This is a forum for natural breast enhancement, and thus for anyone interested in attaining bigger/firmer breasts in a natural way, not only for women. There are many guys out there who have developed breasts in this way (and yes Cheryll´s are real, they are not "manboobs" as you call them). Consequently, their experience is usefull for anyone who participates in this forum, and serves as inspiration as well - if a man can grow breasts without resorting to surgery, why not a woman?

Furthermore, in this forum we try to support one another in our aims and I must say Cheryll is one of the sweetest, most helpful persons I´ve seen (of course all men on this forum are like that, I´m just mentioning her because you did).

You say you see no reason for men to want "manboobs", I imagine because this strikes you as unconventional (does it really matter WHY we all want bigger breasts?). The feeling I get from your post is that you are being intolerant and excluding and this makes me really sad.

[Cheryl1989]

Hi Majestic, i will start by saying thank you to Bibi for your kind words hun it means alot. As for your opinion majestic i must say i do find it quite upsetting but evryone is intitled to there opinion and i have come across alot of people with these kind of views over the last year or so which is ashame. I think if a man wants to develop breasts then why not, does a man having breasts make them a bad person i dont think so.This is a fantastic forum and everyone on here supports each other and helps where they can and thats what i do, i only offer advice if i think i can help and i will always help and offer support to whoever needs it on here as people have supported me and helped me in so many ways and i just want to give something back. How is that wrong?. Like Bibi said this is a forum for natural breast enhancement and that does not mean its for women only, i understand your concerns, i really do but believe me when i say this is not a pervey porn site as you suggest. So please enjoy the site and i hope you are successful but i would appreciate it if you did not comment on me in negitive ways as i do find it upsetting and offensive.
Good luck x

[bellalily]

I'm kind of curious why you decided to post this to begin with. If you don't like whats on tv, you turn the channel. You don't agree with men doing natural breast enhancement, maybe you should find a site that caters to women only....or maybe develop your own. I personally find the stories here..men and women...to be very inspirational. I admire each and every effort and struggle I read about.
I don't agree with calling anyone out by name to hurt or shame on purpose.
I will post my pics here...if I can figure out how to do it.....and if anyone wants to "perv out" on them...lol....be my guest...

[itsjust4fun91]

If you have gone through this site as thouroughly as you say, then you know that this site has as much information as it does, partly due to Cheryl and the discussions we all have.

Cheryl is one of the most helpful members we have and has developed better than most of the women have and inspired women to continue when they had wanted to quit.

I think that if you feel the way you do, then maybe this isn't the place for you, but you should know that you are going to find the same thing on any other NBE board you come across. If you do choose to stay, I hope that you will not make any more personal attacks on Cheryl or any other male members on this board. It definately won't endear you to the members or get you any help when you need it.

I have never been offended or upset by anything on this forum before until now, and it wasn't by one of the male members you seem so phobic of, but you.

I just feel sick having seen this type of behavoir directed toward a member that I think is a wonderful person, and Cheryl, I want you to know that I for one am happy you're here and if I had to choose between you or narrowminded thinking women, you would win hands down. Kindness and compassion are much more desired here than hurtful words. I hope you're alright and I'm really so sorry you've had to go through this in the one place that you felt completely safe and supported during the process you're going through. It just makes my heart hurt right now.

Mel

[Cheryl1989]

Hi mel and bellalily, thank you for your kind words and support, i do come across people like majestic quite alot in my life and no matter how much i try to ignore it, it does hurt a little but everyone has there own views and thats a good thing or else life would be very boring if we all where the same lol but i am a strong person and i have made the best decision i have ever made in my life and its the support and help from this forum that has gave me strength and i love you all for it you must excuse me for sounding sentimental and emotional but some of the kind words people have said about me has really hit a nerve ( Dam you hormones lol ) and i am very greatfull.

Hugs Cheryl xxxx

[Suri]

Hi Carol,

I don't have a problem with men being on the forum. Especially when they are as kind and supportive as Cheryl is.

I must say I don't understand her decision but it is not for me to judge upon it. I judge people on their behavior towards others. And Cheryl is one of the sweetest members on here. She always tells others that she is a biological male and that she has a hormone condition that really helped her growth. She is respectful and helpful and I really appreciate that.

You can never prevent men from registering on the board and looking at you pictures. If that's what you're worried about, you shouldn't sign up in the first place. If you ban men from the forum they will sign up as female. If they really want to look at the pictures it's not gonna stop them. On the other hand you would loose members who signed up for a totally different reason, like sharing their story or just trying to be helpful.

btw, judging you on your behavior, you are narrow-minded and negative. That's not the kind of persons I would like to be around here.

Cheryl, please don't let such narrow-minded comments upset you. It's great to have you here! You are such a gain!

[Majestic]

I did not intend to provoke people on here and i i find most of your response's surprising to say the least!

I also wish to say this was not aimed at you Cheryll but at every male on here, but you are on every thread and you anger me, i don't understand what you are doing and i do not wish to.
Without sounding harsh i think you are strange Cherll as i do every male on here. If either of my son's turned out this way i must admit i would be ashamed, they will be real men as my husband is.

As for the reason i have joined this forum, it is because i would like to enhance my breasts and i know many women on here would agree with my opinion, but are afraid to say so.
Itsjust4fun21 i find what you say very strange also, why should Cheryll need to feel safe on here? maybe you feel he needs serious help as i stated but you are to afraid to say how you really feel. I am not narrowminded i am just normal and i am not afraid to state my opinion like many women should do more often, i never became as sucsessful as i am by holding back my thought's and opinion's.

I intend to remain on the forum as i see no reason why i should not. I am sure there are many on this forum that agree with me and would be more than happy to offer there advice.
I also believe that you ladies that have commented on this thread are in the minority and really need to gain some perspective on this!
And to all the male user's on this site, grow some ball's and be proper men its what nature intended or find a site more suited to your need's so women like myself can feel at ease in there natural breast enhancement.

Carol.

[Andy]

Okay, I am new here. I try to only post when I can help or I have something nice to say. And I try to understand others and give no offense. I was not going to reply to this, but the latest post from Carol decided it for me. Now first off. Cheryl, sweetie. I am so sorry
that someone has come onto the forum and decided to use you. As their focal point to attack a specific group of people here on the site. You do not deserve that. Your journey started with NBE and progressed into something more. You shared that with the folks on this forum and then stayed to help others. So far, I agree with everything that has been posted. The posts have been well written and have put forth several explanations of how this site works. Logical explanations have been given as to why Carols desire, to remove the men from the site. Will not work in the real world. She, instead of giving counter arguments goes once more onto the attack. Everyone has and is entitled to their opinion. Carol expressed hers. We have expressed ours ,Nuff said. Carol does not like men being on the forum. Ok, Folks, Carol does not get it. She probably never will. She does not understand and has said as much. She has no desire to understand, she just wants what she wants. And doesn’t care how she gets it or who she hurts doing it. Look at her post asking for help with NBE. That is not asking. (I am sorry, everyone to cross threads.) She also says that she does not have time. Well that is apparent, based on the post she made.
I could go on all night with the comments Carol has made. And some of you that have received messages from me know this to be true. LOL I love to write. But, I have more important things to do. Then argue with Carol all night.
I think I gotta go cleanout the bathroom drain.
If I thought it would do any good. I would try to explain to her. Why a bio-male like myself, would want to have a more female breasts, and where my journey may be going. Anyone who is interested is free to privately message or e-mail me. I have both on my profile and always welcome mail and questions. But Carol ,as I have said, is not interested in taking the time to understand her fellow human beings, this site or the people on it. And that is fine for her, I wish her well in life.
As for me I have put enough time and energy into this post and issue. Anyway Carol is free to write anything she wants. It is a free site, I don’t have to read anything anyone posts ,or reply to them. If I don’t want to. As for all of you, well that is your decision to make.

Oh, and Carol, one of the reasons people feel “safe” on this site. Is because we can talk about NBE even if we are men, transitioning men, cd’s, women or other. And not have someone judging us, condemning us, or saying “we need help”. We pass along information and try to support one another in their goals for NBE. Whatever their reasons may be. ( If you had studied this site, as you said you did, you would know this.) We answer questions, give advice, and give each other a place to vent their frustrations with NBE. I did need help. I needed information to help me get started on my journey. This site and all of the lovely people in it ,past and present, have helped me to get started in a much more informed way.
Huff--Huff--I told you I like to write and I apologize again for the long post.

andy

"I never look back, darling. it distracts from the now." Edna Mode

Sorry again, off topic.

P.S. I am a “real” man. I have the Rodeo awards, the boy scout badges, the guns and shooting certificates to prove it. I help raise funds for Saint Jude’s children’s hospital and the Children’s Miracle Network here in the US. Just because I do not fit into your
definition of a “real man” does not mean I am not one.

[TeeTee]

MAJESTIC, i think that if you want to get any sort of helpful advice and friendly conversation from anyone on this forum, you should change your name and start again.


and you said " be proper men its what nature intended "
oviously nature didnt intend for you to have bigger boobs or you wouldnt be here?
they are there to breast feed our babys, as u did, as far as nature is concerned, yr boobs have done there job and dont need to look pretty or be a d again!

any decent person would at least get to know other users, chat, give any experiences etc before putting down some of the nicest people on the forum, you confuse me.

and if there are some people that dont think you are a complete heartless crazy lady (i was going to use another word, but dont want to get banned!), and possibly agreed with you,
you have given them no reason what so ever to side with your opinion, and then get themself singled out by others who they have come to really like, but who dont like you.
get to know others and then when people know you are not totally off your tree, then tell us your opinion tactfully...

im all for having your own opinion, but OMG get some sense, tact, compassion, b-nexus friends ..and then u can get some good advice and get yourself some titties! in that order.


i dont wanna get nasty but oviously what you said is hurtful to others and that is by no way a good start is it hun?