02-03-2012, 05:10 PM
Wow, I have to back the other girls in this thread. But I guess I have trouble putting it as delicately as they have. Take your hot, amazing body elsewhere. The guy is emotionally abusive. I'm a bit older than you and I see all the signs. Firstly, your boobs are quite large, in fact I went back through your thread and they were quite large when you started, though you have definitely made a lot of head way. Secondly, you don't get to mix and match your partner. You either love them or you don't. You're not a toy with interchangeable parts. Wtf. It sounds like nothing he actually says is to make you feel good about yourself and every compliment you get is a backhanded one. What do you see as the future for you two? Do you see yourself marrying this kid? What will he do if you gain a little weight when you're pregnant, or your boobs shrink again? What you describe is not love, and what you're feeling is a constant need to measure up to someone who's always going to say you're not good enough. Because that keeps you insecure and malleable. I highly recommend you take a look at how PUAs work. The theory behind being a Pick Up Artist, the main point is to always keep the girl insecure.