[Malina]

It sounds from how you describe your situation that he very much has a hunter instinct. It's about winning the unwilling and not respecting those who give love and affection freely. I may be wrong, but tread lightly on this one. I suspect that once you break up with him and don't contact him for a while, he'll be back telling you how he's changed and wants another chance. He doesn't want you now because you want him. That's fucked up, but that's how some people roll. Be prepared to stand your ground if you really mean to do right by yourself. Don't give in, don't believe he's changed. People like that DO NOT change, but they do perfect the art of manipulation. The only way things will get better is if you rid yourself of him for good. Don't let him come back to you, after he's "Reconsidered" or "changed his mind" he would only be doing that because he will lose confidence that you will be there waiting for him forever. If you take him back, he'll be on good behavior for a little while and then things will only get worse. Be strong. You can do this. We all had one of those at some point, but everyone else to follow will make you much happier as long as you take the time to learn from this.