[berryhopeful]

I am constantly depressed because my breasts don't match. One looks normal, while the other is incredibly puffy, the nipple a bit distorted and bumps everywhere. I hate it. Even if I have been dating my significant other for over a year I still hate undressing in front of him. It's gotten so bad that one of my ex boyfriends told me to get checked because it wasn't normal and my other one spread it around to his frat brothers (got back to me from one of the guys' gfs who I was close to). Anyway yes they're jerks but if practically every guy has thought this of me, then this must be what the general population thinks of my breasts...ugly, deformed. I know what you're going to say, you'll find plenty of guys who'll appreciate it....but the point is I know for a fact what I have is different, and not normal and that will always haunt me. Regardless if my significant other appreciates what I have I will always know that he probably at one point thought it was odd.

Anyway I know you need to appreciate what you have, but at this point I don't even care if i have puffy, distorted, bumpy nipples...just as long as they match! Why did one of my boobs have to signifcantly be different from the other. I'd be less depressed and content if they just looked the same, even if they were both ugly. But the fact that each side of my boob looks completely different than the other just makes my situation a lot worse.

[Anastasia916]

*HUGS* I know how hard it can be to have a deformity, my breasts are tubular, they were much worse before I started NBE, and they were a cup size or so different in size. So I know how hard it can be. It sounds to me like one of your breasts are tubular, is that right? If so, yes NBE can help to some extent. My shape has definitely improved, since they have grown also my nipples aren't as puffy as they once were, but the areola is still big, can't do anything to shrink that unfortunately. Though I've considered trying an experiment with hemroid cream to see if that would do anything.

Keep your head up hun, you are in good company here, all of us have some sort of problem with our breasts or we wouldn't be here. I hope you find what works for you! Good luck!

[Doll]

I'm sorry to hear that your breasts have caused you so much pain. I can't believe those guys would talk about you that way, either. That's so terrible.

It sounds like one of your breasts is underdeveloped. It's not common, but it's also not as uncommon as you think. I'm not sure if NBE can help the underdeveloped one to fully develop, but I really hope so (as both of mine are also underdeveloped). Maybe you could try using either Progesterone or Estrogenic creams (like PM cream) on your "deformed" breast to try to help it catch up to the other one?

Also, as for the nipples, I've been using Supple Nipps. They're little nipple suction cups basically. They pulled my "shy" nipples out into the open, and also enlarged them a lot, after just a few uses. So if you're worried about the shape, that may help reshape the nipple over time.

Good luck, I hope NBE can help you feel more confident about your body.

[berryhopeful]

thanks guys, will definitely be checking those suggestions out. I really don't want to resort to surgery, and at this point I'm at the age where I know they've stopped growing...but I've been thinking and I remember the difference between both of them not as obvious many years ago, meaning if it changed it can change back right? Well this gives me hope at least, because what I have isn't normal at all...I don't even need them to be perfect I just want them to match. I think even as unfortunate looking as one of them is, the reason why guys find it odd is because one is so different from the other