02-03-2014, 15:20
I feel like my boyfriend and I are drifting apart and I want to talk about it, know how he's feeling, but I'm too afraid to say anything. I just find it so awkward! (It's not because he's abusive or anything, he's a very very good man, and everyone is saying that he's a catch, it's really because of me. I don't like to talk about touchy stuff)
In fact, it has been the case with my previous relationships. I never really knew how to communicate. When things are rosy and going well, I love to just enjoy the time. When there are problems though, I really don't know how to approach it, or whether it is appropriate/useful to talk about it. I tend to just... leave it alone. This is driving my relationships to doom isn't it?
Any of you girls have the same problem? Do you girls have any tips? Thanks loads in advance!
In fact, it has been the case with my previous relationships. I never really knew how to communicate. When things are rosy and going well, I love to just enjoy the time. When there are problems though, I really don't know how to approach it, or whether it is appropriate/useful to talk about it. I tend to just... leave it alone. This is driving my relationships to doom isn't it?
Any of you girls have the same problem? Do you girls have any tips? Thanks loads in advance!