16-03-2014, 15:41
My mother used to scold me at least once a week, and basically she goes apes*** crazy. She screams and shouts and cries, and drags the whole saga until 3am in the morning, and she would be cold for the next 3 days.
Sometimes she throws objects, such as phones. She threw a phone on the floor once, chipping a tile. She also hit the bathroom door until it broke once, when I was hiding in the bathroom. Sometimes she would slap herself and scream. There was once she slapped herself until a vessel in her eye broke, during CHURCH CAMP.
My father always sided her, and asked me to kneel to her, kowtow to her and the both of them always say it is my fault.
This happened when I was young, from elementary school perhaps? until I went to college. Things are much better recently, and I didn't think much of it until recently, and I felt that I didn't do anything to deserve that. I mean what can I do as a kid/teen? I didn't steal/kill/bully others. Her reason? That I sulked. She still doesn't admit that she overdid it and treated me wrong.
Today she went crazy again, screaming and taking off her clothes.
I'm not saying that I don't love my mother. She's fine, but her temper is ridiculous and I can't take it anymore.
Anyone has advice as to what I can do? I really want to seek closure here, and stop feeling like I am responsible for her unhappiness.
Or do your parents do something equally hurtful, or worse?
Sometimes she throws objects, such as phones. She threw a phone on the floor once, chipping a tile. She also hit the bathroom door until it broke once, when I was hiding in the bathroom. Sometimes she would slap herself and scream. There was once she slapped herself until a vessel in her eye broke, during CHURCH CAMP.
My father always sided her, and asked me to kneel to her, kowtow to her and the both of them always say it is my fault.
This happened when I was young, from elementary school perhaps? until I went to college. Things are much better recently, and I didn't think much of it until recently, and I felt that I didn't do anything to deserve that. I mean what can I do as a kid/teen? I didn't steal/kill/bully others. Her reason? That I sulked. She still doesn't admit that she overdid it and treated me wrong.
Today she went crazy again, screaming and taking off her clothes.
I'm not saying that I don't love my mother. She's fine, but her temper is ridiculous and I can't take it anymore.
Anyone has advice as to what I can do? I really want to seek closure here, and stop feeling like I am responsible for her unhappiness.
Or do your parents do something equally hurtful, or worse?