[Cheryl1989]

Hi Choco, i have to agree with what anastasia has said, i mean i am all for people changing certain things to become happier and more content with themselfs, i have but do it for the right reasons for yourself. Everyone is beautifull in there own unique way and it sounds like you lack confidence in yourself in a big way and its confidence that attracts people not how big your boobs are or how small your feet are and so on. You sound to me like you have a form of body dysmorphia and this is very serious and you should see a doctor or theripist just to talk things over, i mean i did and i am very happy. There are things that i can never change, my feet are huge lol my shoulders are broad, i have a male voice which i can only change the pitch and softness of, and so on. We are how we are and we can change certain aspects of our bodys to make us happier, thats why we are all here but your skeleton is a no no honey, so dont try to change things that you cant change and concentrate on the things you can to build your confidence and be happy. I really hope you are ok and sort this out hun as in some ways i can relate to you, i have gone through a transformation myself but i had specialist help and i knew what was possible and what is not and i think thats what you need to learn before you do yourself harm. I hope this doesent sound harsh hun its not meant that way i just want you to be ok.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx