24-04-2014, 01:25
First, accept yourself. You DO objectify women, but everyone does. Seriously. People (women and men equally) look at women like they were looking to a table full of food and look at men like they were looking to a door. We perceive women's bodies as "an ass, boobs, some hair, a pair of legs, lips, and eyes" and we perceive the male body as a whole person, only 1 thing, and not a bunch of objects.
That's why you don't see a lot of arm-obsessed women out there, (neither female porn focused on arms
) women are much more likely to be obsessed with breasts.
Second, you need to know why you are obsessed with breasts. Well, let me tell a weird, but real story. Long time ago, men took women only from behind, like animals. So he could see her butt and labia, and get excited. Then people started doing face-to-face sex, and there were evolutionary advantages to it. And since the man couldn't see the women's ass and labia, he mated with women who had mimics of those body parts in the front of her body. Big breasts are self-mimicry of the ass, and red full lips in the face are self-mimicry of the lips down there. And that's ALL big breast are for. Flat chested woman can nurse just as good as any other woman. Actually the only thing that differentiates an A cup from a F cup is the amount of fat in the breasts.
So you don't love breasts because they are breasts, but because subconsciously you think you're seeing a butt.
So why not divide your self-mimicry obsession with the real thing. If you know what I mean.
And anyway in some years this obsession will start fading, since a you age your body produces less testosterone.
That's why you don't see a lot of arm-obsessed women out there, (neither female porn focused on arms
) women are much more likely to be obsessed with breasts.Second, you need to know why you are obsessed with breasts. Well, let me tell a weird, but real story. Long time ago, men took women only from behind, like animals. So he could see her butt and labia, and get excited. Then people started doing face-to-face sex, and there were evolutionary advantages to it. And since the man couldn't see the women's ass and labia, he mated with women who had mimics of those body parts in the front of her body. Big breasts are self-mimicry of the ass, and red full lips in the face are self-mimicry of the lips down there. And that's ALL big breast are for. Flat chested woman can nurse just as good as any other woman. Actually the only thing that differentiates an A cup from a F cup is the amount of fat in the breasts.
So you don't love breasts because they are breasts, but because subconsciously you think you're seeing a butt.
So why not divide your self-mimicry obsession with the real thing. If you know what I mean.
And anyway in some years this obsession will start fading, since a you age your body produces less testosterone.