[wishinandhopin]

Well, I'm certainly no expert. It's all experiment! Have you had him give you an O first through other methods (oral, manual, toy) and then had intercourse? If you could have an O first you will be nice and swollen/sensitive for intercourse. That should help. Plus you won't worry about getting yours, ya know? Then, go for another after. Go for multiples. Take your time. Plus, there really is no big deal about not having an O during actual intercourse. Lots of women don't.

I looked up the Kegelmaster. I might have to get one. It looks a little simpler to use and clean.