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Well, I'm certainly no expert. It's all experiment! Have you had him give you an O first through other methods (oral, manual, toy) and then had intercourse? If you could have an O first you will be nice and swollen/sensitive for intercourse. That should help. Plus you won't worry about getting yours, ya know? Then, go for another after. Go for multiples. Take your time. Plus, there really is no big deal about not having an O during actual intercourse. Lots of women don't.

I looked up the Kegelmaster. I might have to get one. It looks a little simpler to use and clean.

Yea I'm not understanding the Kegel8... Is it an electric current of some sort? And sometimes oral is hard for me to reach O too, I start getting it into my mind that I am taking too long you know? And it makes it hard. I dunno the guy I am kind of with, we've had sex twice now, and both times after it seemed his ego took a blow because I didn't come. He commented on it both times :/ and now he is creating distance between us, which sucks.... Whatever. I'm trying not to let him bring me down, and just going to have fun practicing on my own lol. I'm really close to switching over to girls. Legitly.