[Pearl]

Hi boobguy! I think your thread is very positive, you want to make your life better, you would like (It seems to me!!) to improve your relationships, I think It's a great thing!! I am a woman, I am not a porno addict, therefore I search always ways to improve my life and relationships, because of my past experiences and maybe family "patterns" I used to have severe lack of self esteem and put myself in potentially dangerous situations!In sexuality It's not always simple to do a clear boundery between "good" and "bad"...but I think an obession is an obession, not love. Only love could heal our lives and something that takes me away from other people and from myself is wrong for me! It would make me a slave! freedom is the highest treasure!
(Sorry, but english is not my tongue..I hope I have well explained my thoughts!)
Why not to try some hypnotherapy? It could give you results in a short time! A good hypnotherapy treats all sort of problems..here is an example and some interviews!
http://www.balancehypnosis.com/

Good luck!!!!