21-04-2010, 13:57
I too suffered with vaginismus as a young girl and found penetrative sex very painful when I first married. I found it very embarrassing and difficult to talk about at the time but my hubby was wonderful. Neither of us had had a previous sexual partner and we just learnt lots of other ways to give each other pleasure. Somehow I got pregnant and once I had given birth everything was fine. Your partner sounds wonderful and very caring, I wish you both all the best.