01-06-2014, 10:32
Hey girl
I have been away for a while and just got back on (real quick! can't stay...) because I noticed the medplex website is down and wanted to see if anyone knew anything about it...
And then I saw you had a new program. I have to comment, because I have had the same kind of problem for quite some time. One big problem, as you said, is the stress. I find that also works against me as well. That being said, have you tried drinking your favorite alcoholic beverage before having sex? I mean, that is a pretty stupid question, but I would be surprised if it DIDN'T help you. My ex used to be slightly offended that alcohol was needed to dramatically improve my enjoyment in the bedroom, but all that matters at this point is if I enjoy myself. Men can leave their egos at the door, if you ask me! And many of them know they are being silly... it is mostly an inherent thing. They cannot help it. Their innate job is to please us and, if they unable to, it is like an girl who is unable to sexually arouse a man in a bedroom. They feel ashamed. He is creating distance with you because that is how he is feeling... and THIS is exactly why so many many MANY women FAKE their orgasms-- because a man cannot help feeling like a failure when we don't have one. That's below me, so I just try my darndest to give myself one. It is always clitoral stimulation for me. I like it best when I am worked up and then before coming, have intercourse so that I come while having intercourse. He works on me, and then I initiate intercourse when I am ready. He loves it. I am amazed that you are able to better with focusing on the g-spot. That spot only ever makes me feel like I have to pee!
And I have NEVER heard of the Kegelmaster. I have only done non-resistance kegel exercises, but this is pretty fantastic looking. Have you found it to make you notably stronger in your contractions?
Anyway, good luck with this and I will want to hear up-dates!
I have been away for a while and just got back on (real quick! can't stay...) because I noticed the medplex website is down and wanted to see if anyone knew anything about it...
And then I saw you had a new program. I have to comment, because I have had the same kind of problem for quite some time. One big problem, as you said, is the stress. I find that also works against me as well. That being said, have you tried drinking your favorite alcoholic beverage before having sex? I mean, that is a pretty stupid question, but I would be surprised if it DIDN'T help you. My ex used to be slightly offended that alcohol was needed to dramatically improve my enjoyment in the bedroom, but all that matters at this point is if I enjoy myself. Men can leave their egos at the door, if you ask me! And many of them know they are being silly... it is mostly an inherent thing. They cannot help it. Their innate job is to please us and, if they unable to, it is like an girl who is unable to sexually arouse a man in a bedroom. They feel ashamed. He is creating distance with you because that is how he is feeling... and THIS is exactly why so many many MANY women FAKE their orgasms-- because a man cannot help feeling like a failure when we don't have one. That's below me, so I just try my darndest to give myself one. It is always clitoral stimulation for me. I like it best when I am worked up and then before coming, have intercourse so that I come while having intercourse. He works on me, and then I initiate intercourse when I am ready. He loves it. I am amazed that you are able to better with focusing on the g-spot. That spot only ever makes me feel like I have to pee!
And I have NEVER heard of the Kegelmaster. I have only done non-resistance kegel exercises, but this is pretty fantastic looking. Have you found it to make you notably stronger in your contractions?
Anyway, good luck with this and I will want to hear up-dates!