22-04-2010, 04:46
Anastasia: Thanks for sharing your story with me. It's nice to hear about someone else who's gone through something similar, and gotten past it. Hopefully my condition will be able to improve too. My doctor says that "It will be hard, and may take a few years," but at least I am with a man who in the meantime is extremely loving and sensitive to my problem. By the way, I also use astroglide. I wouldn't say it helps me very much, but I use it anyway.
Sandy: I know what you're trying to say, and I appreciate your advice. However, I'm not exactly "normal," per say. I am diagnosed with two medical conditions, and both are classified as severe. My doctors cannot even perform a gynecological exam on me. But we do know that I have issues concerning nervous tissue. I am anything but negative when it comes to sexuality - I have always had a huge sexual drive and I get turned on incredibly easily. On average my boyfriend and I stay up for hours (doing foreplay, I guess you could call it, since I cant do much else.) When everything is perfect and I am very turned on and happy and wet enough, I still feel pain. I realize that it is common for virgins and people who aren't very experienced in sex to feel some pain and discomfort, but this is not the same thing. I am doing all I can, going through physical rehabilitation as well as mental counseling to try to imrpove my condition. Again, thank you for your response.
Thank you to everyone else, Cleo, TeeTee, esther and Nyx.
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To esther: Yes, I can get turned on, I can feel good if I am touched on the very outside of my clitoris, towards the mound. I can't actually have the lips/clitoris itself/or the inside of the vagina touched. Thank you for your kind words.
Cleo: I've known about this since I was a young girl as well. I tried masturbating at a young age but noticed I would feel terrible if I touched anything inside. I always wondered, "how do people even have sex?" I assumed it was supposed to hurt or something, and that the girl was supposed to just suck it up. But later, around puberty I started realizing, "wait... lots of people love sex, including girls... it doesn't seem like the girl should be in a lot of pain..." But I never talked to my doctor about it, or even my mom, because I didn't have a boyfriend for all thise years up until now.
TeeTee: My mom was very frightened when she had me. The doctors said I'd have learning problems, and that I'd be very small and short, and also that I'd have asthma. To this day I can say that I have never had asthma, never had learning problems (I always ranked in the top of my class) or a lack of social skills, and I am in fact quite tall. (I do have a small frame, though.) My mom quit her job to watch me and take care of me every waking hour after I was born, because so many extra things were required for my health. She had to always supply me with oxygen for a tank because my lungs hadn't formed completely at birth. In many ways I can say that I am extremely blessed to be living the life I have. I think it is a miracle that I am even alive, considering what I had to go through. I hope your son turns out OK. Unless it's been spelled out for you, that he has brain damage, I would just see how things go. People who saw me at the hospital at birth sometimes run into my mother, and they are truly shocked to hear how I am doing now, with none of the problems they predicted I'd have. I would be more attentive to his weight seeing as that was always a problem for me. I was picked on a lot as a child for naturally being very underweight. Stick up for him and don't let him get down. I went through a lot of shit as a kid in school for that. But I'm fine now, people are envious of how I look now. People are into the skinny look for girls, thank god. And hey, my boyfriend is naturally skinny too, but he does work out quite a bit so he has a more athletic physique. I work out too, I really enjoy it and like the weigh it makes me bulk up I guess. I am mainly just glad I don't have lung problems, etc. I will pray that your son is OK.
Thanks everyone, again...
Sandy: I know what you're trying to say, and I appreciate your advice. However, I'm not exactly "normal," per say. I am diagnosed with two medical conditions, and both are classified as severe. My doctors cannot even perform a gynecological exam on me. But we do know that I have issues concerning nervous tissue. I am anything but negative when it comes to sexuality - I have always had a huge sexual drive and I get turned on incredibly easily. On average my boyfriend and I stay up for hours (doing foreplay, I guess you could call it, since I cant do much else.) When everything is perfect and I am very turned on and happy and wet enough, I still feel pain. I realize that it is common for virgins and people who aren't very experienced in sex to feel some pain and discomfort, but this is not the same thing. I am doing all I can, going through physical rehabilitation as well as mental counseling to try to imrpove my condition. Again, thank you for your response.
Thank you to everyone else, Cleo, TeeTee, esther and Nyx.
and...
To esther: Yes, I can get turned on, I can feel good if I am touched on the very outside of my clitoris, towards the mound. I can't actually have the lips/clitoris itself/or the inside of the vagina touched. Thank you for your kind words.
Cleo: I've known about this since I was a young girl as well. I tried masturbating at a young age but noticed I would feel terrible if I touched anything inside. I always wondered, "how do people even have sex?" I assumed it was supposed to hurt or something, and that the girl was supposed to just suck it up. But later, around puberty I started realizing, "wait... lots of people love sex, including girls... it doesn't seem like the girl should be in a lot of pain..." But I never talked to my doctor about it, or even my mom, because I didn't have a boyfriend for all thise years up until now.
TeeTee: My mom was very frightened when she had me. The doctors said I'd have learning problems, and that I'd be very small and short, and also that I'd have asthma. To this day I can say that I have never had asthma, never had learning problems (I always ranked in the top of my class) or a lack of social skills, and I am in fact quite tall. (I do have a small frame, though.) My mom quit her job to watch me and take care of me every waking hour after I was born, because so many extra things were required for my health. She had to always supply me with oxygen for a tank because my lungs hadn't formed completely at birth. In many ways I can say that I am extremely blessed to be living the life I have. I think it is a miracle that I am even alive, considering what I had to go through. I hope your son turns out OK. Unless it's been spelled out for you, that he has brain damage, I would just see how things go. People who saw me at the hospital at birth sometimes run into my mother, and they are truly shocked to hear how I am doing now, with none of the problems they predicted I'd have. I would be more attentive to his weight seeing as that was always a problem for me. I was picked on a lot as a child for naturally being very underweight. Stick up for him and don't let him get down. I went through a lot of shit as a kid in school for that. But I'm fine now, people are envious of how I look now. People are into the skinny look for girls, thank god. And hey, my boyfriend is naturally skinny too, but he does work out quite a bit so he has a more athletic physique. I work out too, I really enjoy it and like the weigh it makes me bulk up I guess. I am mainly just glad I don't have lung problems, etc. I will pray that your son is OK.
Thanks everyone, again...