26-04-2010, 19:56
I agree with these things and said similar things and my thoughts on how males think on this thread http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=5550
Ladies, males like a good chase, they don't like something that is "easy" so stop being up their butt, you might like it if they did that, but trust me they don't! Stop calling them so much, let them call you. I promise if you stopped obsessing over them and made it seem like you have "other interests" but not overdone where it seems you aren't interested anymore, they will be interested instantly and start "chasing" you as in showing you more attention, works everytime. Alot of the things done and said in the movie "The Ugly Truth" is true. And the truth may not be what you want to hear, but that's why it's ugly lol.
Great advice here Cheryl.
Also no relationship is perfect, period. Everyone has arguments and fights, it's just the way it is. I've been married 2 years and though me and my hubby have never fist fought lol we do have arguments, but the important thing is working through things and becoming stronger as a couple because of it. No relationship is like those romance novels or movies you are watching and reading! That's why I hate them, they are just too false, I like real life, not BS. I'm the same with horror films too, I don't go for the vampires and zombies (though hubby argues that could happen *rolls eyes*). I go more for the psychological thrillers, the movies that could actually happen. I'm not saying it's bad to fantasize, but realize your man is not going to sweep you off your feet like the man in that book. Just like males realize we are not going to take it in every orifice like the girls in the pornos then get on our knees with mouth open waiting for their cum on our face lol. It's okay to have that fantasy but don't expect your mate to be like that. I think people need to stop concentrating on the bad and focus on the good and stop letting their insecurities get to them.
Ladies, males like a good chase, they don't like something that is "easy" so stop being up their butt, you might like it if they did that, but trust me they don't! Stop calling them so much, let them call you. I promise if you stopped obsessing over them and made it seem like you have "other interests" but not overdone where it seems you aren't interested anymore, they will be interested instantly and start "chasing" you as in showing you more attention, works everytime. Alot of the things done and said in the movie "The Ugly Truth" is true. And the truth may not be what you want to hear, but that's why it's ugly lol.
Great advice here Cheryl.
Also no relationship is perfect, period. Everyone has arguments and fights, it's just the way it is. I've been married 2 years and though me and my hubby have never fist fought lol we do have arguments, but the important thing is working through things and becoming stronger as a couple because of it. No relationship is like those romance novels or movies you are watching and reading! That's why I hate them, they are just too false, I like real life, not BS. I'm the same with horror films too, I don't go for the vampires and zombies (though hubby argues that could happen *rolls eyes*). I go more for the psychological thrillers, the movies that could actually happen. I'm not saying it's bad to fantasize, but realize your man is not going to sweep you off your feet like the man in that book. Just like males realize we are not going to take it in every orifice like the girls in the pornos then get on our knees with mouth open waiting for their cum on our face lol. It's okay to have that fantasy but don't expect your mate to be like that. I think people need to stop concentrating on the bad and focus on the good and stop letting their insecurities get to them.