[Anastasia916]

Damn Hippie, it sounds like you were with some of my exes! I agree with everything Cheryl said, but also, you need to start putting your foot down, remember you do not have to be with someone, they do not complete you and it's okay to be picky! As Cheryl said if you are clicking with they guy you can spend hours and hours talking on the phone, time will fly when you are with him, and he will enjoy your company not act like you are a burden. I was like this when I first got with my hubby, hadn't been dating in a long time due to hurtful men, and we talked online as friends, then met in person and hung out, then we just clicked. It was literally love at first sight pretty much. And even after we talked and talked on the phone for hours at a time, I had to get an unlimited plan cause my phone bills were getting outrageous! lol and when we were together time flied, 2 days felt like 3 hours. Trust me you'll know when it's the right guy. If you go on a date with a guy and you don't click with him, just remember, you don't have to go on a second one! And also you need to love yourself and enjoy being with yourself before someone else can love you and enjoy your company. I think once you start working on your look like you been talking about, get your confidence in yourself, you will be fine.