[Cheryl1989]

Hi Black Hippie, dont worry hun about being used, i cant say it wont happen at sometime as it might but if your carefull you will just learn from it. I was used by the first man i went with and i was stupid but i wont make the same mistake again, being with men is a new experience for me so im learning aswell lol. But if you take your time with a man and get to know him and then when your comfortable then take the next step, if he truely likes you he will wait and be fine with it and put no pressure on you, if he pressures you or trys to get in your knickers all the time then he might be just after one thing so stay clear. But dont worry about it honest, just enjoy dating and getting to know someone the rest will just happen, and you will be fine, just use your head and dont give in to pressure.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx