[Anastasia916]

Hippie, I've been in therapy before to deal with my life's obstacles, I think the right therapist can definitely help. I've also was put on anti-depressants when I was in my young teens, I would suggest therapy first and if that doesn't work after a while then try a light anti-depressant. I weaned myself off of them eventually, and well... you can't let yourself be a victim. Becoming a victim and letting the bad emotions consume you just lets them win. Becoming a strong person and having a happy fulfilling life despite the bad experiences shows them who's boss! Getting down and depressed, feeling sorry for yourself doesn't help anyone. I've gotten in people's faces that sit there and sulk, crying day in and day out, not eating, not sleeping over such n such dumping them, or this or that happening, I am very blunt in telling them to get the fuck over it. I'm not being insensitive, I understand it hurts, I cry to, but you can't let it consume your life. Doing that as I said is just not good. Hope this helps explain somewhat. But I've only shared very few of the experiences I've been through, there is alot, but I hate sympathy and don't want to bring people down, I can't stand it when people get depressed and cry just because I tell them an experience of mine. I'm fine, I'm not dead, I'm healthy and happy, so they should be happy and rejoice that their life is so fortunate and not feel sorry just because mine was not. I don't like being viewed as different. It's like a handicapped person, they don't want that crap either, they wanted to be treated as an equal.

btw I asked this before, who's that in your avatar pic Hippie?