17-06-2014, 14:25
This is sort of a difficult question because you never know until you're in that situation.
If my husband told me tomorrow that he wanted to grow breasts would I love him through it? I'd like to hope so. However, I know that nbe usually uncovers deeper gender identity issues. Growing breasts is just the tip of the iceberg. I think being on this site would make me a lot more open minded because I love everyone on here so dearly and there seem to be a lot of really good and doting husbands. I'm not saying just growing breasts isn't possible while staying strictly masculine though.
That being said from a sexuality standpoint I don't think I could do it. If I were single and a man came up to me and was 75 percent Johnny Depp and 15 percent Scarlett Johansson (you know which 15 I mean lol), I don't think I would be able to be attracted to him. I'm bisexual but I am either attracted to masculine men like my bearded hubby, or very feminine females. However there are plenty of people out there who are pansexual and are attracted to any and all orientations, gender-identities, and biological sexes out there. I recently met a woman whose husband was very obviously going through transitioning to a women despite the fact that when I first met him he was very much a man. They have two kids together. She loved him just as much as she did the first time I saw them out and he was in full faced makeup at that point.
Basically what I'm saying is that there is someone out there for everyone and don't get discouraged. Good luck with your nbe
If my husband told me tomorrow that he wanted to grow breasts would I love him through it? I'd like to hope so. However, I know that nbe usually uncovers deeper gender identity issues. Growing breasts is just the tip of the iceberg. I think being on this site would make me a lot more open minded because I love everyone on here so dearly and there seem to be a lot of really good and doting husbands. I'm not saying just growing breasts isn't possible while staying strictly masculine though.
That being said from a sexuality standpoint I don't think I could do it. If I were single and a man came up to me and was 75 percent Johnny Depp and 15 percent Scarlett Johansson (you know which 15 I mean lol), I don't think I would be able to be attracted to him. I'm bisexual but I am either attracted to masculine men like my bearded hubby, or very feminine females. However there are plenty of people out there who are pansexual and are attracted to any and all orientations, gender-identities, and biological sexes out there. I recently met a woman whose husband was very obviously going through transitioning to a women despite the fact that when I first met him he was very much a man. They have two kids together. She loved him just as much as she did the first time I saw them out and he was in full faced makeup at that point.
Basically what I'm saying is that there is someone out there for everyone and don't get discouraged. Good luck with your nbe