[ihatepd]

Oh dear. You are in an abusive relationship. Sorry that you don't want to hear that. You will be so much happier after you move on. He is insecure and immature. You've got to break it off and stop all communication so you both can move on.

I'm sorry. That is my best "mom" advice. It is what I would tell any of my girlfriends or daughters.

Thanks for your reply. I knwo that i dont want to hear that but i KNOW that im in that kind of relatiosnhip.

honestly, in the ''past'' maybe from the 6th monnth till the first year / yr n half of our relationship he used to 'beat me' klind off but i made him stop that bcus it hurted like hell and i always told him that if he tries to punch or hit again i would leave him and thank god he stopped.

i really appreciate his parents being on my side of reason. i speak A LOT to his mother openly , i know she wont tell him what i say. she gives me good advices and tells me that she would leave him because she wouldnt accept to live like ''muslims'' and because she had passed ther same story with another partner. she tells me she wouldnt live like i do with restrictions.

also his dad also tells me that hes afraid he would hurt me in the future when we would live together.

i really dont know.i cannot understand why my love to him hasnt died -_-