21-06-2014, 00:24
I agree that this sounds like an abusive relationship. And it sounds like you would really rather not be part of it!
I think the most worrying part here is that your parents are taking his side and will give him access to you. Do you live at home? If so, you need to talk to your parents and explain to them that they mustn't let him in.
Don't worry about making him forget you. That is 100% his problem as is his lack of employment. If he doesn't have anything of yours that is very important, just leave it, cut contact and move on.
I think the most worrying part here is that your parents are taking his side and will give him access to you. Do you live at home? If so, you need to talk to your parents and explain to them that they mustn't let him in.
Don't worry about making him forget you. That is 100% his problem as is his lack of employment. If he doesn't have anything of yours that is very important, just leave it, cut contact and move on.