[MichelleM]

At the risk of piling on (because I've been tied up in meetings all day and just getting a chance to post), I think one of the wonderful things about this forum is generally how incredibly warm and supportive it is. I'd like to think this was a big misunderstanding, brought on, as mentioned above, by the inability to see the person, hear inflection, etc. Because we can only see the words, things like this can happen. BB's feelings were hurt because it touched on an area that's sensitive to her, one that's she's working on getting more comfortable about by *being here*. She's contributed a lot in the short time she's been here, and I would hate to see her go.

It looks like she's willing to stick around. Can I propose a giant group hug between everyone here?