[Cheryl1989]

Hi both, Anastasia is right that men do like different things, and some like you to be gentle with them and some really like you to be firm and abit rough, i hated having my balls touched as they where very sensitive but not in a good way and i always like everything gentle down there as i was really sensitive lol. As far as him teaching you what to do that might be hard as he might not know himself, if he can get hard himself when he masterbates then its defoe a problem with stress and nerves hun as that is exactly how i was. Just spend time naked together, with no stress or expectation and just play with his penis gently like you are giving a gentle massage not aiming to get him hard and just see what happens just tell him to relax, he might have the same worries you do and he might be thinking i must be satisfiying you and i hope she likes it and this can have the same effect on him, as far as the bum thing goes some men do like stimulation of the prostate, finger up the bum, and i agree with Anastasia it doesent make them gay atall so dont worry there, i never experienced it as a man and never wanted too but since my change i have had some experience with it now and it does feel very good but ask him and see what he says lol dont see sex as a taboo thing and you shouldent try something because of it, sex is about enjoying yourself and partner and bringing a bond with each other, try what ever you like and have fun hun, im sure this will sort itself out fairly quick so dont let it cause any stress in your relationship as one day he will get hard and that will be it lol you wont be able to stop him lol Good luck honey.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx