16-08-2014, 21:45
sounds like your girlfriend wants you to be female and it possibly not attracted to men she might be gay or into trans genders
..this is a massive step ! you should do it for you ...growing boobs is a big thing...other than fulfilling her sexual needs you should make sure she loves you for YOU and your soul ..I hope you don't become insecure in your relationship due to this pressure shes put you under. I know you might not want to disappoint her so make sure you really LOVE her and she loves you back, does your relationship have serious potential? are you happy about this? If you are uncomfortable but feel your girl is some how worth it why not try inserts ? You could even use noogleberry before intercourse for temp swelling ...
You can find ways round this if this is something you don't want to do..but if you've thought long and hard and would be happy yourself with boobs go for it...however it is important she respect your feelings in this and cares for your sexual/emotional needs as well as your own (= <3 maybe you can find other ways to enjoy sex together without doing something that is such a commitment ...
If you don't want to do this ..you need to tell her ..tell her why ...and how you feel about her..how you feel about growing boobs? tell her if your afraid ..go through the pros and cons ..let her know if you feel she is over looking how she feels ...if your afraid it will lead to an argument ..don't worry be calm, tender and gentle ..you can give her a lot of affection and love and show her other ways to work through her sexual desires in a way that is compatible to your own ..always reinforce any suffering on your part but balance it with how much you do want to make her happy ..dressing womanly is a non permanent thing .....but growing tits is a long permanent process ..you could however go backwards with T herbs if you changed your mind or broke up?
However if you don't feel emotional feelings for this girl then you need to think if this sexual decision will enhance your enjoyment in sex too ..if it's not a serious relationship it could be a waste that might change your self esteem in later relationships..you need to think if that is worth it or she is worth it ..does having breasts make you feel sexy in your self not just for her? If it is emotional though talked it through
please take care <3 I hope things work out for you and you are happy with your choice and I hope you have an understanding girlfriend
<3
..this is a massive step ! you should do it for you ...growing boobs is a big thing...other than fulfilling her sexual needs you should make sure she loves you for YOU and your soul ..I hope you don't become insecure in your relationship due to this pressure shes put you under. I know you might not want to disappoint her so make sure you really LOVE her and she loves you back, does your relationship have serious potential? are you happy about this? If you are uncomfortable but feel your girl is some how worth it why not try inserts ? You could even use noogleberry before intercourse for temp swelling ...
You can find ways round this if this is something you don't want to do..but if you've thought long and hard and would be happy yourself with boobs go for it...however it is important she respect your feelings in this and cares for your sexual/emotional needs as well as your own (= <3 maybe you can find other ways to enjoy sex together without doing something that is such a commitment ...
If you don't want to do this ..you need to tell her ..tell her why ...and how you feel about her..how you feel about growing boobs? tell her if your afraid ..go through the pros and cons ..let her know if you feel she is over looking how she feels ...if your afraid it will lead to an argument ..don't worry be calm, tender and gentle ..you can give her a lot of affection and love and show her other ways to work through her sexual desires in a way that is compatible to your own ..always reinforce any suffering on your part but balance it with how much you do want to make her happy ..dressing womanly is a non permanent thing .....but growing tits is a long permanent process ..you could however go backwards with T herbs if you changed your mind or broke up?
However if you don't feel emotional feelings for this girl then you need to think if this sexual decision will enhance your enjoyment in sex too ..if it's not a serious relationship it could be a waste that might change your self esteem in later relationships..you need to think if that is worth it or she is worth it ..does having breasts make you feel sexy in your self not just for her? If it is emotional though talked it through
please take care <3 I hope things work out for you and you are happy with your choice and I hope you have an understanding girlfriend
<3