[hannah]

People just are rude, its just like you say if it would be the other way around the hell would break loose. When i'm shopping in public i see people who are obviously fatter then me watching at my skinny legs its like i see what they think..''you anorexic skinny girl''..and ''why would you wear black youre already so thin.''

This happens to me as well as I'm shopping at the mall or at the beach. The girls who stare and whisper to one another are mostly bigger woman (some thin also) now again, I'm not stick skinny, I have a pear shape and I'm 5'9 (I just lack in the boob department, lol!) it could be out of jealously and like to put others down just to make themselves feel better about themselves. Whether they're jealous or not, the comments still hurts.

Now, I have absolutely no hatred towards bigger woman because of this, there are many people in my family who are like that. I just think it's rather ignorant that big people wouldn't like it if you call them fat or tell them to lose some pounds but it's fine to call a skinny person skin and bones or eat a hamburger.

Haha funny that with you it are mostly bigger woman too. I am also not boney skinny i have a nice round butt and hips only slightly too small breasts for my proportions. I dont think we care whether they are jealous or not, I keep feeling good about myself anyways but just the feeling off people watching at you making comments like you are an object or something is so inappropriate. And the thing is people try to whisper behind your back but sometimes you heard them and they dont understand it is really weird people you dont know are just out off all the people around talking about you..

Yeah so annoying huh that fat people always seem to be the sadder ones and the skinny ones are like.. they deserve it. When I google/search in my own language for gaining weight I still find articles for fat people on how not too gain weight.. Then I think is there attention for people with underweight in this society? You only keep hearing about not become fat and 1000's off diets to loose weight, like everyone is obese or something.