[Cheryl1989]

Hi honey, its fine ask any questions you like. For me loosing my virginity as a man was no big thing, i was 16 and my girlfriend was a year older and it was her first time aswell. It lasted a few minutes which was down to me lol and that was it. So not memorable for her atall. I think for a man it always kind of feels the same, thay ejaculate and then its done and i dont want to sound like thats it because having sex and making love are two different things. i was not in love for my first and it was just sex. But later when i fell in love it was a much deeper experience but again it ends in a man ejeculating and hes happy. I have not had sex as a woman but i have been with a man and had anal sex and for me i felt very involved and found my body was so sensitive and it was not just all about one area like it had been as a man. I think women have so many more levels when it comes to sex and although i am scared of having sex as a woman for the first time i am also excited its just finding the right guy. I think it only hurts some girls when its there first time because alot of men just go for it quite hard straight away and ofcourse that will hurt the first time but some men wont do that. But i dont know myself, and i dont know if i will experience the same as a genetic female when i come to have sex and i guess ill never know. But dont even worry about it hun, it will happen and you will be fine so dont get yourself worried as sex is a wonderful thing when you find the right person so relax hun.
Hugs Cheryl xxxx