30-06-2010, 05:24
Nessa, if that jerk said that crap around me.... he would have been kicked so hard in his genitals that everytime he even thought about sex and got excited he would be in agony for weeks.
I don't play with that subject, no knowledge of sex does not help you. Learning self defense does. Having the courage to fight back does.
How do I know? I was molested as a child by a doctor, I was date raped in my early teens by 2 different guys, then almost raped one time but fought my way out of it.
Now of course as a child I wouldn't know about sex, but in my teens I did, so that DOESN'T prevent a damn thing. Only self defense does. But yea, like I said, he would have been beat down by me if I was around. You just don't say crap like that. I don't care what your childhood was like. I had a rough childhood too and I don't tell people they deserve to be raped or anything stupid like that!
And I agree even if the girl is stripping for the guy, kissing him, rubbing on him, etc. but he makes a move and she doesn't want it and says no... he has NO right to force it, period! That's like saying because a male does those things to a female she has a right to force him to do it just because she's turned on. It's called control. And some men do have control.
I have a very good male friend that I've dated twice. Once while we weren't dating, was in between the two time we did... I got drunk, REALLY drunk, was the only time I had a hangover and didn't remember anything. Well I was shown a video of me basically throwing myself at him, rubbing all over him, telling him to go get a condom... and he just kept trying to calm me down and push me off of him. He took me home, this wasn't on video... and said that I stripped completely naked and tried to have sex with him, but he wouldn't cause I was intoxicated. The type of jerk you are talking about probably would have took advantage of that situation. And I know for a fact he didn't have sex with me... or I would have been sore down there cause it had been like a year since I last had sex. So I know he was telling the truth. So yea, even if a girl throws themselves on a guy, it is still the guys decision what he does, guys do have self control! Just some would rather not admit it and use it as an excuse to hurt women for their own sick twisted desires.
I hope he gets beat down by someone!
I don't play with that subject, no knowledge of sex does not help you. Learning self defense does. Having the courage to fight back does.
How do I know? I was molested as a child by a doctor, I was date raped in my early teens by 2 different guys, then almost raped one time but fought my way out of it.
Now of course as a child I wouldn't know about sex, but in my teens I did, so that DOESN'T prevent a damn thing. Only self defense does. But yea, like I said, he would have been beat down by me if I was around. You just don't say crap like that. I don't care what your childhood was like. I had a rough childhood too and I don't tell people they deserve to be raped or anything stupid like that!
And I agree even if the girl is stripping for the guy, kissing him, rubbing on him, etc. but he makes a move and she doesn't want it and says no... he has NO right to force it, period! That's like saying because a male does those things to a female she has a right to force him to do it just because she's turned on. It's called control. And some men do have control.
I have a very good male friend that I've dated twice. Once while we weren't dating, was in between the two time we did... I got drunk, REALLY drunk, was the only time I had a hangover and didn't remember anything. Well I was shown a video of me basically throwing myself at him, rubbing all over him, telling him to go get a condom... and he just kept trying to calm me down and push me off of him. He took me home, this wasn't on video... and said that I stripped completely naked and tried to have sex with him, but he wouldn't cause I was intoxicated. The type of jerk you are talking about probably would have took advantage of that situation. And I know for a fact he didn't have sex with me... or I would have been sore down there cause it had been like a year since I last had sex. So I know he was telling the truth. So yea, even if a girl throws themselves on a guy, it is still the guys decision what he does, guys do have self control! Just some would rather not admit it and use it as an excuse to hurt women for their own sick twisted desires.
I hope he gets beat down by someone!