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It is hard to say. Everyone is different. You may want to get a hormone test done.

Dong quai and Damania ( chinese herbs) are supposed to increase labido for women.

You may want yo find out if you are E dominant. Your lack of sexual ardor seems to suggest low T.
( both men and women have testosterone, progesterone, and estrogen, in varying levels)

Of course, feel free to do independent research to confirm.

Thanks. I looked up a test for e dominance and ordered a kit. I did a quick online test thing too (check some boxes) and it says I am. Not sure how reliable it is so I'll wait. What would you suggest for estrogen dominance? Should I continue to take fenugreek or no?