[Andy]

Hi hun. i am so sorry that this has happened to you. I have read over your posts and do not see what there was to cause offense. Your posts were on topic and informative. The fact you were once a male gives you insight to the questions asked. Presenting that fact allows others to understand that you know what you are talking about. It was not fair for this carol person to threaten you with expulsion without first checking her facts. There were better ways to handle this then the way it was handled. I will be writing the site owner a letter when I have time to devote myself fully to the task.
Personaly I am glad you are here so don't let it get you down.