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black hippie. i missed you! congrats on going to uni. ah the days. i have to say, i was always very shy and awkward til college. then suddenly people change because there are so many of them and so many kinds. it was awesome. i realized there were a lot more weirdos out there besides me. i made friends and was a pretend social butterfly in my groups and social atmosphere. i made some swell lifelong friendships! friendship is also the most important thing about being a couple along with taking care while having fun and being the best person you can be as yourself. soon, it will be so obvious that there is no need to change for others (except making corrections for picky profs lol) or worry about them over there. i think statiscally lots of people find their mates in college. trust me, no garentee there either :] but present your true and best nature. if you are unique and special personality that is not something to worry about. i am no cookie cutter girl and some guys though thrown off by that were not adverse to it :] how boring the world would be if we were all a bunch of duplicate zombies! i didn't do a lot of dating, but i don't regret that. i found the one for me (though i could strangle him sometimes). some girls in college, eesh i was sorry for them. girl, i know you are not gonna be one of those cases now! anyway you are gonna be surprised the diversity you encounter and like it i suspect, since you get on with some of us crazies! peace and good luck my sista!