11-07-2016, 19:43
It sounds as if he waited this long to say those messed up things, like after he thought you were stuck with him, by either the child, or after he got you to lose your job or friends.
Duff is right, his behavior is going to get worse, as it already has.
I don't know if it's a bluff that he has someone watching you. He's a control freak, so it is possible a control freak would go as far to have someone watch you, or he is using a bluff to manipulate you to the same effect. I wouldn't be surprised if he tries to go through your stuff or get your child to talk to try to be a step ahead of you. You have to be vigilant, and not leave the slightest clue you're leaving.
Duff is right, his behavior is going to get worse, as it already has.
I don't know if it's a bluff that he has someone watching you. He's a control freak, so it is possible a control freak would go as far to have someone watch you, or he is using a bluff to manipulate you to the same effect. I wouldn't be surprised if he tries to go through your stuff or get your child to talk to try to be a step ahead of you. You have to be vigilant, and not leave the slightest clue you're leaving.