[EllaC]

I reckon mine was BC and really makes me wonder what to about my girls (kids) as they grow up i guess educate the crap out of them and avoid BC i really think its no good yes it stops pregancies but doesnt stop disease and messes with hormones at a vital stage of development. My eldest is 11 so i guess the time will be here before i know it! 

And as for orgasms - i recently mastered that beast through some tantra practices and once i learnt i just had to let go and be in the moment bam there they were.
 There's a male and female book by a tantric couple (Australians) her book is called 'sexy & sacred' by Diane Riley not sure what male one is called but my hubby read it and taught himself how to last longer which is great they explain women simmer and if they (man) can last abit longer they can get us to boil over 'orgasm' generally once i boil over once it happens again and again. Its absolutely life changing experience and i wish all women could experience it! Sorry if tmi lol

Oh wow that’s a book and a half then! Tell you what... EVERY friend I have who took BC long term ALL have pcos now. No lie!! Tell you what I hardly used BC at all and for all my years being active sexually I Never had an unwanted pregnancy. I think you can be pretty cautious these days. That’s not to say accident last don’t happen but my girl .. well I’ll encourage her to not use BC unless it really was needed ya know