10-11-2010, 01:42
Wow, that´s a tough one... I don´t think there is something like a fast cure for a breakup, it takes time, hon. Once I tried to forget one boyfriend by starting to date a new one instantly, and so on when that didn´t work out - bad mistake. It was like I was in denial, distracting myself from missing my bf.
You just have to go through a period of feeling low, hard as it seems. Otherwise it´ll never heal. At the same time, try to do the things you love, take care of yourself. Perhaps you feel like being alone, maybe it´s socializing you prefer. Just do what your instincts tell you.
Also, try not to give in to the "what ifs" - anytime you start to blame yourself for the breakup, put a stop to those thoughts. No need to torture yourself! This may sound silly (and it did to me when my mom told me this) but try to be your own best friend, taking care of yourself with positive thoughts and trying to have a good time - whenever possible.
You just have to go through a period of feeling low, hard as it seems. Otherwise it´ll never heal. At the same time, try to do the things you love, take care of yourself. Perhaps you feel like being alone, maybe it´s socializing you prefer. Just do what your instincts tell you.
Also, try not to give in to the "what ifs" - anytime you start to blame yourself for the breakup, put a stop to those thoughts. No need to torture yourself! This may sound silly (and it did to me when my mom told me this) but try to be your own best friend, taking care of yourself with positive thoughts and trying to have a good time - whenever possible.