Excuse me for making so many threads. I noticed that most of the first page threads are mine but this forum is very slow and I want to provide some conversation points and food for thought. It also helps me to write out what I'm experiencing and feeling to a likeminded group. It's a shame that so few people actually post on these forums.
I have noticed that one of the biggest problems I have is focusing on how my breasts look and feeling depressed/hateful towards them. I cannot see the growth and I feel hopeless and hideous.
The time when I feel most confident about my boobs is actually when I focus on what they FEEL like. This is best done during a massage session with the lights off, so that you have to rely on touch only.
When I touch my boobs instead of looking at them... I feel pleasantly surprised, I expect to feel so much less fat there and it catches me off guard almost every time. They are full, they are soft, they feel great. They FEEL much better than they LOOK.
I recommend this technique for some of you like me who might not be seeing progress in the mirror. It will also help your massage sessions since the time flies by (meaning I can massage for longer) when I'm focused on how they feel.