[Wannabe]

Oh, dreamergirl. You've got issues, but I don't think your breast size is the central cause of them. I'm a genetic male. While an obviously busty woman in a provocative garment might catch the eye, I have to say most of the time when I'm out in public I don't particularly notice a woman's breast size. Most everyone has some feature that calls more attention than others-- a hairstyle, type of clothing or something, or, maybe, some physical trait. In social situations it's often the way a woman's personality project that calls attention to her. In other words, there are at least a dozen characteristics that can call attention to a woman-- not just breast size. It's really not that hard to call attention to yourself.

In fact, in my experience the kind of guys who most easily notice breast size are the jerks you'd be better off not meeting anyway. But if you want to find out what it's like, just order a pair of those cheap bra fillers on eBay, stuff them into a larger bra and wear a sweater. See if life suddenly becomes better for you. Personally, I suspect that your poor self image has a deeper core that's working against you. Changing your breasts might help things for awhile, but your biggest change needs to start in your head.