(27-11-2020, 17:42)Wannabe Wrote: Oh, dreamergirl. You've got issues, but I don't think your breast size is the central cause of them. I'm a genetic male. While an obviously busty woman in a provocative garment might catch the eye, I have to say most of the time when I'm out in public I don't particularly notice a woman's breast size. Most everyone has some feature that calls more attention than others-- a hairstyle, type of clothing or something, or, maybe, some physical trait. In social situations it's often the way a woman's personality project that calls attention to her. In other words, there are at least a dozen characteristics that can call attention to a woman-- not just breast size. It's really not that hard to call attention to yourself.
In fact, in my experience the kind of guys who most easily notice breast size are the jerks you'd be better off not meeting anyway. But if you want to find out what it's like, just order a pair of those cheap bra fillers on eBay, stuff them into a larger bra and wear a sweater. See if life suddenly becomes better for you. Personally, I suspect that your poor self image has a deeper core that's working against you. Changing your breasts might help things for awhile, but your biggest change needs to start in your head.
Thank you for this message. It's good to know that not everybody looks for the same thing and my fixation on breasts probably DOES exceed most males. But I have felt sexually invisible for my whole life, and it's not because I'm ugly/plain (except my breasts) or I dress badly.
If nobody looks at me that way and society on a whole associates breasts with sexuality... I think that men see me as a romantic partner potential, but not "she has a hot body and I'm sexually attracted to her"... it kind of stings to be a "personality" kind of girl. Anybody who doesn't adore my body is not worth my time of day.
Actually, I have done the latter, and can confirm that people treat me way better and give me more positive attention/compliments when I appear to have a larger chest. I haven't gone all out with huge fillers, but I have increased my breast size by 2 or maybe 3 cups (still kind of modestly sized because my frame is small!) this way. I think my theory has some weight to it, being more attractive in general gets you treated better.