I am absolutely guilty of doing the same thing. Since I started NBE I’ve judged and compared women’s breast to the point where it’s automatic, I don’t even think about it. I find it annoying, especially when I’m watching a movie or something, I would much rather just enjoy it than trying to guess the actress bra size, but that too just kinda happens. I’ve accepted that while being in the NBE phase being very boob focused is part of it, but I don’t like how I’m comparing myself with other women, and can see how it’s not healthy.
I recently took a Kibbe-test to determine my body type.
https://youtu.be/rLIuYHLzZpM
If you’re interested in fashion and esthetics I highly recommend it, it gives guidelines about what hairstyles, clothes and styles that suits your body. It was very healthy for me to take this test because the test requires photos in underwear of the whole body taken from a chest level height to avoid any confusing angles. I’ve never seen my body like that before and was very surprised by how delusional I was about my it. While I’m definitely bottom heavy with wider hips and by no means “busty”, I have a very slim waist and flat stomach which makes my B-cup look very proportional. Being very NBE focused and comparing myself to women with my goal boobs had severely twisted my self image where my boobs where just tragic, but looking at my body as a whole they are not. It made such a difference to me I’ve feel some NBE pressure is off since taking that test. The YouTuber in the video is also so great in explaining how it’s the same thing with facial proportions. It is pointless comparing a pair of lips, for example, with another woman’s because what makes a pair of lips look big or small depends on the nose and eyes it shares the face with and not the actual measurements of the mouth.
Anyways why I recommend the Kibbe test is because just like Bobbi says it’s about the whole body and proportions. Nobody you meet is just going to see you as just a pair of boobs walking around and neither should you.