Hi mommylumps
Cute name by the way.
I'm not an expert on BO, but this is my favorite BO success story and you might glean some tips from it.
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=27368
And here are my two favorite massage threads:
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=25391
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=26280
I'd buy a bottle of organic Coconut oil to massage with. If it doesnt agree with you you can at least cook with it. 
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Have you been keeping your body temp up? If not then BO wont do a thing.
One other thing to remember is that breasts are largely fat. Thats why dieting and NBE are hard to do together.
I apologize for you not getting responses, but covid seems to have done a number on this forum, except for the spammers.
Keep posting and I hope life will come back.
Bobbi