[Wannabe]

I am someone who has long since reconciled with my inner dualities and with self care you can, too. You simply have to realize that while you may feel more one way or the other at times, both sides of yourself are always present and deserve to be cared for. Your macho man self is going to have to let your lady self buy a bra or a Noogle set or whatever now and then. And, by the same token, she can't dominate your life either. There are plenty of ways to enjoy your femininity without stopping being a man. In the long run, your overall life will benefit.