20-12-2009, 00:12
Hi Cheryl,
Ok I dont know if this will help but I will tell you what i think. I think some if not all of the attraction you maybe feeling could have something to do that your were and are best friends thru all of these changes. Thats only a guess but I know I had feelings for a guy I went to school with when I was younger. I always was thinking if I was going to do anything with a guy it would have been him because we knew each other so well. I did find a guy when I was alittle older. But thats another story if you want to know it feel free to ask. I can only guess as to hard it has been with friends. I would guess some have backed off others have been fine with it. I would also have felt a little uncomfortable doing what you did. To me this would be something to only share with someone that is special to me just like I would share any part of my body with. Since you said you are straight how have the women you dated feeling about the change? I was wondering have you shared them (your breasts) with anyone before male or female other then you doctor? If you are still living as a female I could see why he would be attracted to you. From what I have seen on here you are a baeutifully woman. Sorry got off track there. Maybe he wants to be with a guy but not a total guy. Maybe he likes breasts alot and would be getting the best of both worlds. I would have to say even beening a gay male I sometime see a female and think shes hot LOL. Maybe it has something to do with your hormone levels changing to that of a female. If you want to see if it is just something with him maybe try going on a date with another guy and see how it makes you feel. I would not try doing this if you dont feel like it but if you do make sure it is a straight guy and not gay man. I dont think it would be the same because im a gay male. So I think I would know. I would also ask him if you can why did he want to see them so bad and how he felt about them now. You said he treats you like one of the guys Im not sure how that works for you. If you are living as a woman he should treat you as one. Let him know about how it made you feel. I would not tell how it turned you on(it may freak him out) think thats better for you to know that and not him unless you want to. If there is anything else please feel free to ask anything
Good luck
J.F.
Ok I dont know if this will help but I will tell you what i think. I think some if not all of the attraction you maybe feeling could have something to do that your were and are best friends thru all of these changes. Thats only a guess but I know I had feelings for a guy I went to school with when I was younger. I always was thinking if I was going to do anything with a guy it would have been him because we knew each other so well. I did find a guy when I was alittle older. But thats another story if you want to know it feel free to ask. I can only guess as to hard it has been with friends. I would guess some have backed off others have been fine with it. I would also have felt a little uncomfortable doing what you did. To me this would be something to only share with someone that is special to me just like I would share any part of my body with. Since you said you are straight how have the women you dated feeling about the change? I was wondering have you shared them (your breasts) with anyone before male or female other then you doctor? If you are still living as a female I could see why he would be attracted to you. From what I have seen on here you are a baeutifully woman. Sorry got off track there. Maybe he wants to be with a guy but not a total guy. Maybe he likes breasts alot and would be getting the best of both worlds. I would have to say even beening a gay male I sometime see a female and think shes hot LOL. Maybe it has something to do with your hormone levels changing to that of a female. If you want to see if it is just something with him maybe try going on a date with another guy and see how it makes you feel. I would not try doing this if you dont feel like it but if you do make sure it is a straight guy and not gay man. I dont think it would be the same because im a gay male. So I think I would know. I would also ask him if you can why did he want to see them so bad and how he felt about them now. You said he treats you like one of the guys Im not sure how that works for you. If you are living as a woman he should treat you as one. Let him know about how it made you feel. I would not tell how it turned you on(it may freak him out) think thats better for you to know that and not him unless you want to. If there is anything else please feel free to ask anything
Good luck
J.F.